Tag Archives: Friendship

The sandpaper that shapes us

Posted on October 8, 2013 by recovgirl

Several months ago, an eternity in recovery time, I wrote about finding it difficult to let go of anger and resentment towards the people I felt had treated me unfairly in life.  I’ve come a very VERY long way since … Continue reading →

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Assertive communication and the desired outcome

Posted on July 6, 2013 by recovgirl

Last week, in group, we learned about assertiveness (the positive space between passive and aggressive) and the cost of communicating without it.  It didn’t look exactly like this, but the general gist is the same: It was an excellent learning … Continue reading →

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Support System, Party of One

Posted on June 5, 2013 by recovgirl

Every good recovery needs a strong support structure, right?  But what does “support” really mean and where does it really come from? I’ve always been overly accommodating.  I’m a total “people pleaser.”  I overcompensate, because I’ve never felt like I … Continue reading →

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